Scapegoat

The scape goat is a role in the dysfunctional family system. The scapegoat grows up being shamed, manipulated, neglected and blamed. They remember their childhood as walking on eggshells. They were always on the defensive always having to protect themselves. They might have also seen other siblings (the hero, the golden child) be praised or treated differently. Scapegoats have to deal with emotionally immature parents who feel more comfortable projecting and deflecting that reflecting inwards and actually facing themselves and their issues. If this is you, you’re not alone support in the comments #scapegoat #selfhealers #childhoodtrauma #scapegoatchild

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Being the scapegoat child can feel like being the dumping ground for the unprocessed pain and trauma of the family’s lineage. The scapegoat is expected to stay quiet and suffer in silence, and are accepted or even praised when they do this. This is more common in families with a narcissistic or emotionally immature parent. The scapegoat serves the role of deflecting attention from real conflict and dysfunction. Understanding this family dynamic can help you heal, and transform your experience from suffocated to empowered. If you relate to this role, share your experience ⬇️ & let me know if you’d like more information on the healing process 🩷 * * * * * #scapegoat #narcissisticabuserecovery #familysystem #relationships #cptsd #healingtrauma #familyroles #blacksheep #narcissisticabuse #toxicrelationships #traumahealing

The scapegoat is usually labeled as “difficult” or “sensitive” because they no longer normalize dysfunction and start setting boundaries #scapegoat #generationaltrauma #childhoodtrauma #healingjourney

In dysfunctional families, there is always a need to avoid issues and emotions. This is why one member of a family tends to become a scapegoat: or the person who the family blames their issues on. If someone else is to blame, then no one has to face the true issues going on in the home. The scapegoat comes to believe (over time) that they themselves cause all issues. Even though this is not the reality because many of the issues actually come from a dysfunctional family dynamic. The scapegoat suffers from: low self worth, confusion around their feelings, and usually constantly is on the defensive #scapegoat #selfhealers #childhoodtrauma

What happens if the scapegoat leaves? Insights from about 7 years of workshops devoted to family systems healing. Was this your experience? #scapegoat #scapegoatchild #familyconstellations #scapegoatchildrecovery #narcissisticfamily #cyclebreaker #cyclebreakers #blacksheep

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Escape goat role within a toxic family system is the beyond abusive and the levels of deep subterfuge over time either way it any sense of peace. The scapegoat is the truth teller though, and the most likely to break the cycle of the toxic family. #narcissist #abuse #trauma #narctok #therapy #scapegoat

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#duet with @karragen Perfect example of how it feels to be the scapegoat in a narcissistic family dynamic. #orphaned #toxicfamily #toxicparent #abuse #scapegoat #narctok

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