Attachment Styles

#greenscreen #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #attachmenttheory

Replying to @jacqueline.b.4 a lot of these descriptors can overlap because they’re describing different forms of the same thing: insecurity. I hope this helps 🫶#therapistsontiktok #learnontiktok #insecureattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #mentalhealthmatters

Feels like you’re going crazy sometimes 🫠 #anxious #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiousthoughts #anxiousattachmentanddating

The typical trauma response of each attachment style during conflict. #Love #Relationship #AttachmentStyle #FYP #ForYouPage

If you relate to this video im so sorry 🥲🩷 #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #relationshipadvice #podcast

If you’re dating somebody with an avoidant attachment style, here are some tips to have you navigate through the relationship: “I Feel Statements” Not “I feel like you” Statements: Initiate conversations about feelings without being accusational. Use “I feel…” instead of “You always…” Also make sure *not* to follow “I feel” with an accusation like, “I feel like you always focused on yourself,” that’s not an emotion, that’s an interpretation. If “I feel” is followed by “you” that’s a signal to back up and reevaluate. Use feeling words like sad, disappointed, afraid, or lonely when I don’t hear from you (for example). Negotiate Needs With Invitations: Clearly communicate your desires with an invitation to negotiation HOW to meet relational need. For example, "I understand you need your space sometimes; regular communication is essential for me to feel connected. How can we set up an expectation that works well for both of us?" This isn’t making them responsible for your emotions, this is laying out the cause and effect for them: your behavior influences my connection with you. Our conversation should express a warm invitation into mutually discussing how to meet both of our relational needs. Allow For Breaks and Check Back In: If they need space, respect it, but discuss a time frame to come back together and find a solution. For instance, “I understand you need some alone time. Can we reconnect or figure out a solution together in a couple of hours?”

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10 signs of avoidant attachment style pt. 1 (explained) #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #fearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiouspreoccupied #anxiousavoidantdance #anxiousavoidanttrap #

Why you have the attachment style you have. @doodledwellness_ #anxiousattachment #therapy #avoidantattachment

Avoidantly attached ex #moderndatingbelike #attachmentstyle #wanderlusqt #anxioustosecure

The top 3 needs of your DA partner #love #relationships ##AttachmentStyle##FYP##ForYouPage

Understanding the four different types of attachment styles can provide valuable insights into how we form relationships and navigate emotions. 🌟 Join the discussion in the comments as we explore secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles. #BialikBreakdown

Which style are you? Your attachment style determines the date of your relationship. #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #abandonmentwound #relationshipadvice

The first one hits 😳 #disorganizedattachment #disorganizedattachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidant #situationships #leftonread

Ring a bell? 😅 #dating #relationship #relatable #attachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #anxiousattachment #anxiety

Avoidant attachment 🙅🏻‍♂️👇🏻 The left is feeling discomfort with the amount of intimacy and love being shown, and they express that in a potentially hurtful way. They don’t want to say it that way but they’re reacting to the discomfort inside. The right acknowledges the feeling inside and tries to explain that, pointing out the emotion instead of making it about their partner. Avoidant attachment is still an unhealthy attachment style, and again can take time to overcome. It’s one’s struggle with being comfortable with intimacy and love due to their beliefs about it as a child. This reel series was made to help those struggling with avoidant attachment to communicate that struggle more effectively and healthily, until they can/have overcome it altogether. If you’d like to learn how to overcome it, or any other insecurities, you can work with me directly or join me on my other long form content pages where I’ll go into depth (all links in bio). Otherwise follow for more and keep growing 🧠🫶🏻 #avoidant #avoidantattachment #attachment #attachmentstyles #relationships #relationship #relationshipissues #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #relationshiptips #healthyrelationships #love