#notareplacement
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Can we stop viewing stepmoms as a REPLACEMENT but rather a TEAMMATE? #sayitlouderforthepeopleintheback #stepparent #stepmom #stepmoms #insecurebioparent #bioparents #biomom #biodad #coparentsteuggles #bestinterestofthechild #stepmomsoftiktok #highconflictcoparenting #highconflict #practicetheseprinciples #stepmomtok #notareplacement
I begged God for years to bless me with something only HE COULD GIVE ME AND HE BLESSED ME WITH HER. After I lost Leilani I never thought I’d get the chance of having another girl… especially after having two more boys after losing her. I’d given up hope that I would even have another child let alone another girl. Doctors told me I couldn’t have more because I could lose my life. I gave up the notion and by the grace of God I didn’t tie my tubes like I had planned during Langston’s birth. NOW I KNOW WHY! It wasn’t meant to be that way. I was meant to have her. I swear I look at her and cry. I love her beyond words… I used to feel guilt for this but now I accept it and love and her double. Love her for HER AND HER SISTER. SHES no replacement but wow does she fill my heart. I thank God for her.
#parentingafterloss #rainbowbaby #neverlosehope #notareplacement #mydaughter #mysecondchance #myloveislikewhoa #Leilanissis #livingforLeilani #losingLeilani #angelmom #lifeafterlosscanstillbebeautiful #lifeafterlossishard #lifeafterloss #LeelaViolet #LeilaniLynnSantana
#parentingafterloss #rainbowbaby #neverlosehope #notareplacement #mydaughter #mysecondchance #myloveislikewhoa #Leilanissis #livingforLeilani #losingLeilani #angelmom #lifeafterlosscanstillbebeautiful #lifeafterlossishard #lifeafterloss #LeelaViolet #LeilaniLynnSantana