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vinkiva

Vin Kiva 🏳️‍⚧️

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29 | self compassion/executive functioning coach | artist

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Forgiveness

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Books n stuff 2023

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Conflict is Not Abuse

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About me!

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🐈Peanut & Whisper🐈‍⬛

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Will to Change Wednesdays

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Books n Stuff 2022

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Couple's Therapy Lessons

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tldr: I like being kind and treating all people like people. I expect the same from those around me. #conflict #conflictskills #conflictresolution #conflictresolutionskills #communication #compassion #friendship #relationships #marriage #community #aboutme #about #communitybuilding created by Vin Kiva 🏳️‍⚧️ with Vin Kiva 🏳️‍⚧️’s original sound
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tldr: I like being kind and treating all people like people. I expect the same from those around me.

#conflict #conflictskills #conflictresolution #conflictresolutionskills #communication #compassion #friendship #relationships #marriage #community #aboutme #about #communitybuilding
The Algo has seen fit to show my content to people who don't have the proper context, so here's as close to all of it as I can give in 2 minutes.

#menswork #feminism #gender #gendereducation #genderliteracy #bellhooks #thewilltochange #patriarchal #patriarchalbeliefs #masculinity #wholesomemasculinity #toxicmasculinity #restrictivemasculinity #healing #healingjourney #compassion #selfcompassion #selflove #selfcare #selfloveformen #selfcareformen
It's scary to own up to the fact that we can perpetuate harm. AND not owning up to it will mean we probably will.

#conflict #conflictskills #conflictresolution #conflictresolutionskills #communication #compassion #friendship #relationships #marriage #community #healing #healingjourney #traumahealing #ptsd #cptsd
back in my day TVs were TVs and computers were computers

#backinmyday #backintheday #gettingolder #aging #tv #millennial
public comment sections are a wild place to be insistent about poor social skills
#conflict #conflictskills #conflictresolution #conflictresolutionskills #communication #compassion #friendship #relationships #family #community
Podcasters will say "a tiny little city of xyz" and it's like just an extremely average sized city
Replying to @user8669540355394 they grow up looking for permission, not cooperation.

#conflict #conflictskills #conflictresolution #conflictresolutionskills #communication #compassion #friendship #relationships #marriage #community #gentleparenting #consequences #lookherecomesaconsequence
freedom to act is not freedom from consequence
#conflict #conflictskills #conflictresolution #conflictresolutionskills #communication #compassion #friendship #relationships #marriage #community #attentionseekingbehavior #attentionseeking #criticalthinking
can we just skip the tantrum
#conflictskills #attentionseekingbehavior #attentionseeking #criticalthinking #medialiteracy
you can truly madly deeply just not bring it up
#conflict #conflictskills #conflictresolution #conflictresolutionskills #communication #compassion #friendship #relationships #community #book #books #booktok
You can do hard things!
#conflict #conflictskills #conflictresolution #conflictresolutionskills #communication #compassion #friendship #relationships #marriage #community #boundaries #Thanksgiving #family #selflove #selfcare #selfcompassion #selfconfidence
hit em with the ol "what an odd thing to say"
#conflict #conflictskills #conflictresolution #conflictresolutionskills #communication #compassion #friendship #relationships #marriage #community #boundaries #Thanksgiving #family #selflove #selfcare #selfcompassion #selfconfidence
This seems like a particularly good week to reflect on what is or is not our business

#conflict #conflictskills #conflictresolution #conflictresolutionskills #communication #compassion #friendship #relationships #marriage #community #boundaries #internalboundaries #selfdiscipline #discernment #criticalthinking #healing #healingjourney
Replying to @finch also I think this'll be my final Hey Soul Sister video, I'm not making this a series

#heysoulsister #music #humor #comedy #selfawareness #medialiteracy #listeningcomprehension #criticalthinking
guys it's a goof

#heysoulsister #music #humor #comedy #selfawareness #medialiteracy #listeningcomprehension #criticalthinking
Like, okay, you get one company to treat its workers better.............. then what?

#activism #collectiveaction #community #communityorganizing #organizing #conflict #conflictskills #politics
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