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Mim Kempson

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Mim Kempson 🏳️‍🌈Relationship Coach Self-Connection | Dating | Sexuality

Instead of focusing on who you’re NOT and what you DON’T want - work out what you DO want and who you ARE. We seem to know an awful lot about what we hate and what we’re against, but not what we love and what we stand for #truths #relationshipcoach #therapistsoftitok created by Mim Kempson with Mim Kempson's original sound
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Instead of focusing on who you’re NOT and what you DON’T want - work out what you DO want and who you ARE. We seem to know an awful lot about what we hate and what we’re against, but not what we love and what we stand for #truths #relationshipcoach #therapistsoftitok
“I’m not looking for a relationship” can be a cop out. Because what does “relationship” even mean? It’s different to everyone #relationshipadvice #couplestherapyworks #therapistsoftitok
Dear men, your wife does not owe you domestic labour. Doing things around the house does not derserve praise. It’s called being an adult. #couplestherapy #marriageadvice #genderroles
It’s certainly not a clear cut “before and after”, but life DOES get better 🥰 Not because problems disappear but because over time we learn the tools to deal with its challenges. #povlifeisgood #lifeisbeautiful #therapysessions
Stop settling for the bare minimum. Even more, stop CELEBRATING it in others 😓🙄

Stop celebrating when they simply think of you while you’re apart, that ain’t special. When they buy you something, plan a date, send you gushy texts, do the domestic house chores, looks after the kids, reject other people when they’re hit on, shower you in compliments… that’s not love! I repeat, it’s the bare minimum.

Raise the bar

#fyp #relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals #misogyny #relationshipstandards #consciousrelationships
There’s a sh*t tonne of noise in this world that leads us to pretend to be someone we’re not. Therapy helps cut the BS so you can see - who tf are you? #fyp #therapy #dudeimgettingmypersonalityback #therapistsontiktok #queertiktok
Be careful not to blame the loudest person in the room for all the relationship problems #fyp #relationships #couplestherapy #anger
Just as we can develop dependencies on certain things, we can develop dependencies on certain feelings #fyp #addiction #addictionrecovery #therapy #attachmentstyle
It’s not the facts that matter, it’s feelings #fyp #empathy #couplestiktok #couplestherapy #relationships #datingcoach #relationshipcoach
The more we “spend” repeating our old patterns, the more self-esteem it costs us #fyp #selfesteem #selfworth #therapy
If you’re bisexual and you think having s3x with the same sex “doesn’t count”, newsflash: that’s internalized biphobia #fyp #bisexuality #bisexual #bipride #sextherapy #biphobia #lgbtqia
When prioritising your inner work, to the ourside it can look like you’re doing “nothing” with your days. We may therefore quickly become discouraged, feeling like we havent been “productive”. Reassure yourself that although the inner work is invisible, true healing will lead to a fulfilment that the external can never provide for us 💛 #fyp #innerwork #therapy #consciousrelationships #selflove #selfparenting #selfesteem
When we build partnerships on the condition that we’re forever attracted, turned on, happy and able to access pleasure… well, your relationship won’t be built to last.If it’s the only glue keeping you together, you’re gonna be on shaky ground for the rest of time. Do you want that? Do you want the loyalty, security, commitment and love of your relationship to built on conditional things that are NOT constants? The choice is yours. #fyp # relationships # sextherapy # couplestherapy # datingcoach
When our partner is an introvert and we’re an extravert, here’s what is needed: empathy. Your way is not better than theirs. Theirs is not better than yours. Listen to what they’re requesting. Find a middle ground. #fyp #relationships #couplegoals #couplestherapy #couplestherapist #lgbtqia #queerrelationships #lesbianrelationship #relationshipcoach
Boundsries aren’t all set from a good place #fyp #boundariesarehealthy #boundaries101 #selfimprovement #selflove #selfcare #selfworth #therapy
What makes a relationship worth committing to long-term? #fyp #relationships #dating #datingcoach #datingadvice #relationshipcoach #selfworth #selfconfidence #relationshipadvice
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