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Salma Hindy
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Vaginismus is the body’s automatic reaction to the fear of some or all types of vaginal penetration. Whenever penetration is attempted, your vaginal muscles tighten up on their own. You have no control over it.
The highest rates of vaginismus in New York are reported in orthodox Jewish and Muslim women. Lots of Muslim women can’t consummate their marriages for months or years even because of it. Which puts a strain on their relationships and sense of self. I remember hearing tons of Vaginismus nightmare stories from women I know personally 2 years ago and thinking “oh yeah I’m fine I def don’t have that.” Lmao I was in for a rude awakening.
To all my celibate girlies, if you intend to have sex after marriage, I would recommend going to a pelvic floor physiotherapist and checking out what the situation is down there and what you can do to prepare your body for the future.
It can be a lot, emotionally and physically, to go from 0 to 100 with someone you don’t know for too long (especially since Muslim marriages move at a crazy fast pace lol - I literally saw a Muzmatch ad on the subway last week that showed a couple and said “married in 2 weeks”). Most often, you need time to develop a tender relationship with your body first (though self pleasure) before you can let someone else in.🤍
Edit by the amazing: @patsamaha - WE BACK BABY
#vaginusmus #femalebody #femaleanatomy #dating #fearofintimacy #healing #therapy #physiotherapy #comedy #womenshealth #womenincomedy #standup #jokes #muslimgirl #arabgirls #foryou #fy #muslim #arab
The highest rates of vaginismus in New York are reported in orthodox Jewish and Muslim women. Lots of Muslim women can’t consummate their marriages for months or years even because of it. Which puts a strain on their relationships and sense of self. I remember hearing tons of Vaginismus nightmare stories from women I know personally 2 years ago and thinking “oh yeah I’m fine I def don’t have that.” Lmao I was in for a rude awakening.
To all my celibate girlies, if you intend to have sex after marriage, I would recommend going to a pelvic floor physiotherapist and checking out what the situation is down there and what you can do to prepare your body for the future.
It can be a lot, emotionally and physically, to go from 0 to 100 with someone you don’t know for too long (especially since Muslim marriages move at a crazy fast pace lol - I literally saw a Muzmatch ad on the subway last week that showed a couple and said “married in 2 weeks”). Most often, you need time to develop a tender relationship with your body first (though self pleasure) before you can let someone else in.🤍
Edit by the amazing: @patsamaha - WE BACK BABY
#vaginusmus #femalebody #femaleanatomy #dating #fearofintimacy #healing #therapy #physiotherapy #comedy #womenshealth #womenincomedy #standup #jokes #muslimgirl #arabgirls #foryou #fy #muslim #arab
