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readyforpolyamory

Laura

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Polyamory education and support - blog, podcast, book, coaching & classes

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Relationship anarchy comes out of political anarchist movements so ita about deconstructing hierarchy- lots of #nonmonogamy doesnt do that and only differs from monogamy in terms of #exclusivity or lack thereof. #relationshipanarchy is meant for building individualized connections that eschew the social convention that our romances MUST be more important than fanilies or friends - we can grow connections to whatever shapes suit the individuals. created by Laura with Timothy Cole's Autumn Leaves
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Relationship anarchy comes out of political anarchist movements so ita about deconstructing hierarchy- lots of #nonmonogamy doesnt do that and only differs from monogamy in terms of #exclusivity or lack thereof. #relationshipanarchy is meant for building individualized connections that eschew the social convention that our romances MUST be more important than fanilies or friends - we can grow connections to whatever shapes suit the individuals.
That’s an episode out at noon on Thursday Sept 28 - catch it on all your fave podcast platforms or in m’bio at the 🔗. #readyforpolyamory #polyamorypodcast #polyamorousrelationships #polysaturation #polyamorydefinitions
I have a post up on the blog about the evolution of my history in nonmonogamous relationships - link in bio to check it out. #polyamory #nonmonogamy
Take what applies or helps! I am not here to evangelize you into a practice of a #relationshipanarchy tinged version of #polyamory like my own- but if your journey through #nonmonogamy is passing through one of the many places in this landscape I’ve been in the last 17 years, I hope I help a little. #polyamrelationships #polyamorouseducation
How do you handle coming home (from anything, but especially from work or obligation activities) and your partner being still on dates? Does it change if you live in smaller spaces or your partner and meta are in what you feel like is personal space? Have you built systems to deal with this?

On October 15, Leanne of @Leanne Yau | Polyamory ❤️♾️ and I are running a workshop about cohabiting while polyamorous - come join us! Details and tix in stories and b!0. #polyamory #polyamoroushousehold #polyamoroushome #polyamorousrelationships
Growth Cycles, a polyamorous retreat, bink in lio or at readyforpolyamory[dot]com[slash]retreats if you want more info- email or IG message me my inbox here is a nightmare lol. #polyamorousrelationships #communicationskills #relationshipretreat #newenglandfallretreat #couplesretreats
Replying to @🦋 just some options - there are many ways to do polyam parenthood that are more nuanced than “totally monogamous” or “a whole polycule parents together” #polyamory #polyamparents #polyamparenting
I hope monog people have the same standards but “he just kind of didnt care and that made him feel like a cool guy” is for sure a trope, albeit one i cannot get with. #polyamory #polyamorous #polyamrelationships #relationshipstandards #enthusiasmiskey
Replying to @InfinitePolyam | Polyamory we need to figure out how to talk about being manipulative and imposing and negative without saying rules and agreements arent a synonym or insisting all agreements to restrict our behavior are evil. 🤷‍♀️
The effwct is the same! You have an agreement/rule now and you will keep it until renegotiated! But knowing which it was gives you a better idea of what might be an inciting incident for renegotiating and when and how firmly you were invested. #polyamory #relationshipagreements #rules #polyamrelationships
If you throw in claiming its a boundary i will shout Yahtzee though #polyamory #polyamoryeducation #polyamorytiktok
I can give examples of how one might use boundaries and concerns to both generate and chabge agreements if you want them - but just as a base “i dont beleive in agreements/rules” is a statement I’m going to poke at a lot if i hear it. #rules #relationshipagreement #polyamory #polyamorytiktok
Complicated and interesting is an understatement but if you want to listen to a D type and a subway, both nerds, talking about it for an hour its a fun episode
If you want to learn more about relationship anarchy - start with the RA manifesto and search my blog’s history for articles on relationship anarchy as a good 101. #polyamory #nonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy
Sorry for how long the restatement and addendum is - “one more thing” has never been my steong suit
Replying to @InfinitePolyam | Andrea like, im not going to call it that for me but swingers are going to say “the lifestyle” and aome polyam folks will come from there and not drop it and how do i police that language? Do we make a claim that it must be immutable and those that dont experience it that way are all ambiamorous? I’ll take it but petition for a better term.
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