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queersextherapy

Casey Tanner

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Cert. sex therapist expanding insight around love, sexuality and gender

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Keep the love alive in your long term relationships by practicing these rituals and making them a part of your everyday (or every week)! Which are you going to try first in your relationship? #longtermrelationshiptips #longtermrelationships #intimacytherapist #queertherapists #relationshiprituals created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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Keep the love alive in your long term relationships by practicing these rituals and making them a part of your everyday (or every week)!

Which are you going to try first in your relationship? #longtermrelationshiptips #longtermrelationships #intimacytherapist #queertherapists #relationshiprituals

It can be confusing.. even for the person experiencing the mood shifts if they don’t know what’s happening. #queertiktok #2slbgtqia #lgbtqia #therapist #therapytiktok #healthyrelationships #communication #relationships #dating #selfawareness #disorganizedattachment #attachmentstyle #psychology #innerchild created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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It can be confusing.. even for the person experiencing the mood shifts if they don’t know what’s happening. #queertiktok #2slbgtqia #lgbtqia #therapist #therapytiktok #healthyrelationships #communication #relationships #dating #selfawareness #disorganizedattachment #attachmentstyle #psychology #innerchild

“How do you maintain intimacy after living together for a while?” #queertok #lgbtq #therapytiktok #therapy #therapytok #selfhelp #dating #relationship created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

“How do you maintain intimacy after living together for a while?” #queertok #lgbtq #therapytiktok #therapy #therapytok #selfhelp #dating #relationship

The 4 things to remember when communicating your needs (for some with an anxious attachment) ⤵️ 1. Prioritize your 2-3 top needs 2. Be open to a middle-ground when disagreements arise 3. Don't apologize for communicating your needs 4. Be specific, using examples when possible Did this help? ☺️ #communicationinrelationships #communicationneeds #communicationissuesinrelationships #relationships #datingtips #relationshipadvice created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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The 4 things to remember when communicating your needs (for some with an anxious attachment) ⤵️
1. Prioritize your 2-3 top needs
2. Be open to a middle-ground when disagreements arise
3. Don't apologize for communicating your needs
4. Be specific, using examples when possible

Did this help? ☺️

#communicationinrelationships #communicationneeds #communicationissuesinrelationships #relationships #datingtips #relationshipadvice

Being open and upfront about not wanting to have sex can allow for more ease as you move through the date. The great part is, you can always change your mind! ❤️ #therapistadvice #relationships #datingtips #firstdateexpectations #communicationinrelationships #firstdatetips created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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Being open and upfront about not wanting to have sex can allow for more ease as you move through the date. The great part is, you can always change your mind! ❤️
#therapistadvice #relationships #datingtips #firstdateexpectations #communicationinrelationships #firstdatetips

S3x therapy is about so much more than just s3x! So many of our anxieties dance on the stage of s3xual!ty, so s3x can point to other areas of strength and struggle. S3x therapy can be about identity exploration, relationship expansiveness, and communication! #therapistadvice #intimacytherapist #therapysession #therapy #whattotalkaboutintherapy #relationships #dating #attachmentstyle #datingtips created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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S3x therapy is about so much more than just s3x! So many of our anxieties dance on the stage of s3xual!ty, so s3x can point to other areas of strength and struggle. S3x therapy can be about identity exploration, relationship expansiveness, and communication!

#therapistadvice #intimacytherapist #therapysession #therapy #whattotalkaboutintherapy #relationships #dating #attachmentstyle #datingtips

Choosing a therapist can be overwhelming...here are some questions I'd ask if I were looking for a new therapist today. #findingatherapist #newtherapist #therapistadvice #therapistadvice #intimacytherapist #therapysession created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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Choosing a therapist can be overwhelming...here are some questions I'd ask if I were looking for a new therapist today.

#findingatherapist #newtherapist #therapistadvice #therapistadvice #intimacytherapist #therapysession

Anxious attachment style + long-distance relationship can be a triggering combination! Here are some tips to help you soothe your anxiety while you're apart. #communicatinginrelationships #anxiousattachmentstyle #therapistadvice #anxiousattachment #healthyrelationshiptips created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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Anxious attachment style + long-distance relationship can be a triggering combination! Here are some tips to help you soothe your anxiety while you're apart.

#communicatinginrelationships #anxiousattachmentstyle #therapistadvice #anxiousattachment #healthyrelationshiptips

Remember: Don't shame your partner(s) about their solo s3x life, focus on your feelings. Listen to this sample script, and let me know if it helps! What other scripts would it be helpful for me to create? #communicatinginrelationships #relationshipadvice #exploreyourself #intimacytips #intimacytherapist #therapistadvice #intimacyideas created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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Remember: Don't shame your partner(s) about their solo s3x life, focus on your feelings. Listen to this sample script, and let me know if it helps! What other scripts would it be helpful for me to create?

#communicatinginrelationships #relationshipadvice #exploreyourself #intimacytips #intimacytherapist #therapistadvice #intimacyideas

Have you ever broken up with a therapist? What did you decide to say? How honest were you, and why? #intimacytherapist #therapistadvice #breakingupwithyourtherapist #therapist #breakupwithyourtherapist #therapistbreakup created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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Have you ever broken up with a therapist? What did you decide to say? How honest were you, and why?

#intimacytherapist #therapistadvice #breakingupwithyourtherapist #therapist #breakupwithyourtherapist #therapistbreakup

Having anxious thoughts about behaviors that your partner(s) does can send you through a rollercoaster of emotions but working through these thoughts can help you get better at communicating with them. Have honest conversations about these behaviors and how you can work with them to rewrite these thoughts. #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #communicationinrelationships #intimacytherapist #healthyrelationshiptips created by Casey Tanner with OMA’s C.R.E.A.M. (Live Instrumental)

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Having anxious thoughts about behaviors that your partner(s) does can send you through a rollercoaster of emotions but working through these thoughts can help you get better at communicating with them. Have honest conversations about these behaviors and how you can work with them to rewrite these thoughts.
#anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #communicationinrelationships #intimacytherapist #healthyrelationshiptips

Let's bust some myths about sexual fluidity! How does sexual fluidity play a role in your life? #therapistadvice #intimacytherapist #exploreyourself #sexuallyfluid #intimacyadvice created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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Let's bust some myths about sexual fluidity! How does sexual fluidity play a role in your life?

#therapistadvice #intimacytherapist #exploreyourself #sexuallyfluid #intimacyadvice

Unpack what you're really feeling in regards to s3x with your partner(s). Instead of beginning with accusations, get curious about deeper desires that. may lie beneath the surface. #therapistadvice #intimacytherapist #intimacyadvice #intimacytips #intimacyideas #couplesconversations #communicationinrelationships #relationshipadvice created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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Unpack what you're really feeling in regards to s3x with your partner(s). Instead of beginning with accusations, get curious about deeper desires that. may lie beneath the surface.
#therapistadvice #intimacytherapist #intimacyadvice #intimacytips #intimacyideas #couplesconversations
#communicationinrelationships #relationshipadvice

If you're in a very long-term relationship(s), the way you experience s3xuality will undoubtedly shift throughout the course of being with your partner(s). How can we remain connected even as our s3xuality ebbs and flows? #intimacytherapist #communicationinrelationships #healthyrelationships #exploreyourself #intimacyideas #sexuallyfluid #communicatinginrelationships created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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If you're in a very long-term relationship(s), the way you experience s3xuality will undoubtedly shift throughout the course of being with your partner(s). How can we remain connected even as our s3xuality ebbs and flows?
#intimacytherapist #communicationinrelationships #healthyrelationships #exploreyourself #intimacyideas #sexuallyfluid #communicatinginrelationships

Orgasms aren't always easy - for some of us, they take hard work and focus! If it takes lots of your time/energy, it's okay to decide that orgasm isn't going to be your focus (right now, in this relationship, or overall). Let me know if you have any questions about navigating this topic. #intimacyadvice #intimacytherapist #communicationinrelationships #therapistadvice #healthyrelationships created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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Orgasms aren't always easy - for some of us, they take hard work and focus! If it takes lots of your time/energy, it's okay to decide that orgasm isn't going to be your focus (right now, in this relationship, or overall). Let me know if you have any questions about navigating this topic.

#intimacyadvice #intimacytherapist #communicationinrelationships #therapistadvice #healthyrelationships

How s3xually active you are has to do with your choices, social circles, desire, and values - not your s3xual orientation. #intimacyadvice #intimacytherapist #exploreyourself #intimacyideas created by Casey Tanner with Casey Tanner’s original sound

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How s3xually active you are has to do with your choices, social circles, desire, and values - not your s3xual orientation. #intimacyadvice #intimacytherapist #exploreyourself #intimacyideas

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