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Transitions can be tough for little ones, here’s what works for us ♥️ #FFXmasSwitch #toddler #foryou #fyp #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting
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Transitions can be tough for little ones, here’s what works for us ♥️ #FFXmasSwitch #toddler #foryou #fyp #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting
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LauraLove · 2021-12-23

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LauraLove · Creator

He had JUST woken up from a nap so I knew it would take a little time before he was ready!

2021-12-23

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Marge

That sounds exhausting

2021-12-24

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why do so many parents think having absolute authority over their child is "real parenting" 😳 is it cause youve never had control in ur own life 😗😳

2021-12-27

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rmarney

choosing 20 minutes of gentle choices and reassuring over 20 minutes of resistance, tears, dismissing the kids autonomy and ruling by force and fear.

2021-12-27

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For the Love of Fun

Is this why elementary school children can’t handle life? Asking for a teacher.

2021-12-24

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Dorothy Schulman

Please! Wasting 20 minutes just to go to the store

2021-12-25

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Lori O’Malley

When my kids were that small (30 yrs) I said let’s go. They didn’t have a choice. Obedience is better than sacrifice..

2021-12-24

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Jojo_jones_custom_creations

And then he goes to school and expects this treatment but has meltdowns. His poor teachers! Hopefully you progress away from this....

2021-12-24

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But like imagine being a child and having ZERO control over your day 😰 I remember it being so scary. It makes sense that they resist changes like ths

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Erica

20 minutes from giving the warning to actually leaving the house is IMPRESSIVE!

2021-12-23

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kikibythebeach

Wow all the teachers and parents in here who dont get it. 😳 God forbid we teach kids the power of decision making/choices/consequences/autonomy

2021-12-29

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Bonnie Joy Sludikoff

Works for adults too- ok it’s time for work do you want Starbucks or homemade coffee and eggs?

2021-12-25

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Lauren💋

I wish I could do this but working myself early mornings is a struggle. Do you get up any earlier to allow this or not?

2021-12-30

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LauraLove · Creator

(2)morning for this, it is very doable. 9 times out of 10 THIS is much quicker than fighting a toddler & handling tantrums 😅🥰

2021-12-30

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Wren

I do this with my kids & it saves so many meltdowns. They need a sense of control & autonomy.

2021-12-28

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GirlMomx3

This makes me realize that as an adult I still struggle with transitioning to the next task when it is something I DON'T WANT to do 😏

2021-12-26

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Stephanie

The people who disagree with this sound so angry and that speaks volumes 😂

2021-12-24

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Aunti3Nay

choices are great but you gave 2 or 4 minutes. Still need those boundaries🥰

2021-12-27

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LauraLove · Creator

The only reason I allowed it is because it was in the middle. If he said “10 mins” or even “5mins” my response would have been different.

2021-12-27

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mommymellietwo

Love this but what happens when life cause you to have to leave quickly. Real question

2021-12-23

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Gabe

THIS!!!

2021-12-24

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Hvrse..edits

realy ???? realy??? pleasr 😂😂😂😂 watch a problem in the making

2021-12-23

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