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⚠️ 𝘚𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘚𝘌𝘓𝘓𝘐𝘕𝘎. 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗠𝗔𝗧𝗖𝗛𝗠𝗔𝗞𝗜𝗡𝗚. The Golden Rule always wins in business. You win. Your clients win. And the world is a better place because of it. - shoutout to @Ed Mylett for helping me see this was possible by constantly demonstrating and modeling this by being a fiercely committed servant-leader.
#biztok repreneurtok #biztok #smallbizowner #businesstips #successtips #thegoldenrule
#biztok repreneurtok #biztok #smallbizowner #businesstips #successtips #thegoldenrule
⚠️ 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲𝙇𝙀𝙎𝙎𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 is most often the result of not having been taught what PURPOSE is.
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If you think about purpose in most contexts, it is an ACTION to be taken to achieve a SPECIFIC result.
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𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙐𝙍𝙋𝙊𝙎𝙀 𝙤𝙛 𝙝𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙤𝙧 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙖𝙘𝙮.
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𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙐𝙍𝙋𝙊𝙎𝙀 𝙤𝙛 𝙗𝙖𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛.
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𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙐𝙍𝙋𝙊𝙎𝙀 𝙤𝙛 𝙨𝙡𝙚𝙚𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙩.
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Etc.
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We make specific choices because we want specific results.
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When you stop and actually take the time to 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗰 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁𝘀 that you want in your life, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 in every single thing that you do.
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Because now, 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗨𝗥𝗣𝗢𝗦𝗘 of all of your actions, is to create that specific result.
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We MUST define the results we want in our relationships.
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We MUST define the results we want in our health.
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We MUST define the results we want in our work.
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𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗲 𝗠𝗨𝗦𝗧 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘄𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁𝘀.
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All of these results must be clearly visualized with high definition clarity.
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Once you’ve defined these results with clarity, you know what you are aiming at.
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Once you know what you were aiming at, you can bring all of your habits, choices, beliefs, and behaviors into true alignment.
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Anything that you do, say, think, or believe that is out of alignment with what you are aiming at… MUST BE CHANGED.
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And you are the only one who has the power to change these things.
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This is how you create a life of PURPOSE and MEANING.
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𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗱𝗲.
𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗶𝘁.
𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲.
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A fulfilling life of purpose and success does not happen by accident.
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It happens only through the consistent dedication of intentionality.
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Special shoutout to @Darcy Corcoran for recently having me on her podcast, “Her Next Best Move” - Go check it 👊
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#findyourpurpose #purpose #meaningoflife #success #fulfillment
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If you think about purpose in most contexts, it is an ACTION to be taken to achieve a SPECIFIC result.
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𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙐𝙍𝙋𝙊𝙎𝙀 𝙤𝙛 𝙝𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙤𝙧 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙖𝙘𝙮.
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𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙐𝙍𝙋𝙊𝙎𝙀 𝙤𝙛 𝙗𝙖𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛.
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𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙐𝙍𝙋𝙊𝙎𝙀 𝙤𝙛 𝙨𝙡𝙚𝙚𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙩.
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Etc.
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We make specific choices because we want specific results.
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When you stop and actually take the time to 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗰 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁𝘀 that you want in your life, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 in every single thing that you do.
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Because now, 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗨𝗥𝗣𝗢𝗦𝗘 of all of your actions, is to create that specific result.
⠀
We MUST define the results we want in our relationships.
⠀
We MUST define the results we want in our health.
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We MUST define the results we want in our work.
⠀
𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗲 𝗠𝗨𝗦𝗧 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘄𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁𝘀.
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All of these results must be clearly visualized with high definition clarity.
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Once you’ve defined these results with clarity, you know what you are aiming at.
⠀
Once you know what you were aiming at, you can bring all of your habits, choices, beliefs, and behaviors into true alignment.
⠀
Anything that you do, say, think, or believe that is out of alignment with what you are aiming at… MUST BE CHANGED.
⠀
And you are the only one who has the power to change these things.
⠀
This is how you create a life of PURPOSE and MEANING.
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𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗱𝗲.
𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗶𝘁.
𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲.
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A fulfilling life of purpose and success does not happen by accident.
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It happens only through the consistent dedication of intentionality.
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Special shoutout to @Darcy Corcoran for recently having me on her podcast, “Her Next Best Move” - Go check it 👊
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#findyourpurpose #purpose #meaningoflife #success #fulfillment
𝟮𝟬𝟭𝟴 - 𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗴𝗲𝗿. Staring in the bathroom mirror hating the man I saw.
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The irony was that I was decently “successful” for a college dropout.
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Six figures
Corner office
Company car
Millions in sales
House + Wife + Kid
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But there I stood.
Disgusted & ashamed.
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The chaos in my head and heart were unbearable.
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60 lbs overweight
Constant anxiety & panic attacks
The light had faded
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Over a 1-2 year period...
Miscarriage
Betrayal
Death
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At one point, I found myself in the conference room, terrified.
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The "big dogs" were on one side and I was on the other.
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It was a blur as I weathered a barrage of rageful & profanity-filled attacks on my character - All because someone else had lied about me.
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I was told the only reason I wasn't fired (yet) was that I was too much of a financial asset.
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So they just took $40k from my pay.
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But, that’s another story for another time.
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That day in the bathroom, I wanted to end it all. The pain was too much.
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I was failing.
As a husband, father, & friend.
Failing to take ownership of my life.
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But God intervened.
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So I stopped blaming him & everyone else for my problems.
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I committed to reinventing myself, rebuilding my family & redefining what was possible.
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Over the past 5 years, I’ve become the man I said I would be.
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He’s definitely not perfect.
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But I love that man now.
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And he always smiles back at me in the mirror.
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Today, I provide support, strategy, & solutions to entrepreneurs & leaders based around a concept I call "Fierce Empathy".
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It enables us to look in the mirror, face reality, & confront the challenges that hold us back from REAL success & fulfillment.
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I help people BECOME the leaders they said they would be.
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You want powerful perspective, compelling stories, & actionable advice that will transform minds and move hearts?
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I’m here to provide that, and more.
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If my message can serve you or your community, let's connect & explore a powerful conversation.
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I'd be honored to come alongside you for your next event, conference, podcast, or workshop.
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With you and for you,
- David
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#speakers #podcasters #eventplanners #success #fulfillment
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The irony was that I was decently “successful” for a college dropout.
⠀
Six figures
Corner office
Company car
Millions in sales
House + Wife + Kid
⠀
But there I stood.
Disgusted & ashamed.
⠀
The chaos in my head and heart were unbearable.
⠀
60 lbs overweight
Constant anxiety & panic attacks
The light had faded
⠀
Over a 1-2 year period...
Miscarriage
Betrayal
Death
⠀
At one point, I found myself in the conference room, terrified.
⠀
The "big dogs" were on one side and I was on the other.
⠀
It was a blur as I weathered a barrage of rageful & profanity-filled attacks on my character - All because someone else had lied about me.
⠀
I was told the only reason I wasn't fired (yet) was that I was too much of a financial asset.
⠀
So they just took $40k from my pay.
⠀
But, that’s another story for another time.
⠀
That day in the bathroom, I wanted to end it all. The pain was too much.
⠀
I was failing.
As a husband, father, & friend.
Failing to take ownership of my life.
⠀
But God intervened.
⠀
So I stopped blaming him & everyone else for my problems.
⠀
I committed to reinventing myself, rebuilding my family & redefining what was possible.
⠀
Over the past 5 years, I’ve become the man I said I would be.
⠀
He’s definitely not perfect.
⠀
But I love that man now.
⠀
And he always smiles back at me in the mirror.
⠀
Today, I provide support, strategy, & solutions to entrepreneurs & leaders based around a concept I call "Fierce Empathy".
⠀
It enables us to look in the mirror, face reality, & confront the challenges that hold us back from REAL success & fulfillment.
⠀
I help people BECOME the leaders they said they would be.
⠀
You want powerful perspective, compelling stories, & actionable advice that will transform minds and move hearts?
⠀
I’m here to provide that, and more.
⠀
If my message can serve you or your community, let's connect & explore a powerful conversation.
⠀
I'd be honored to come alongside you for your next event, conference, podcast, or workshop.
⠀
With you and for you,
- David
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#speakers #podcasters #eventplanners #success #fulfillment
#growth - Maybe we’re just complicated plants… yes, we can shape and form our lives through navigatinf challenges, overcoming resistance, and making sure we’re rooted in good soil. BUT, that’s not the same as “trying hard” or “forcing” growth. — Useful? Lemme know. 👊 #personalgrowth #professionalgrowth #entrepreneurship #personaldevelopment #coachingtips
𝙎𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙢𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙢 𝙖𝙜𝙖𝙞𝙣.
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If you feel stuck, aimless, or confused about your purpose, stop looking around and go within.
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You’re here for a reason. 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙞𝙩.
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘯’𝘵 “𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧𝘪𝘴𝘩” 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘷𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧.
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘣𝘺 𝘎𝘰𝘥 𝘢𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯?
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘷𝘦 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘯𝘦𝘨𝘭𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘴𝘰 𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘮 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴… 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮?
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 “𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘰𝘯” 𝘰𝘳 “𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦” 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘬 𝘪𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘵?
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𝘚𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵’𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘰 𝘢𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵?
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘪𝘵’𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦?
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𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘫𝘰𝘣 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘶𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘺 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘺?
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶…
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𝗜𝗦 𝗬𝗢𝗨?
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##purpose ##mindsetmotivation ##dreambig ##purposefulliving ##unstuckyourself
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If you feel stuck, aimless, or confused about your purpose, stop looking around and go within.
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You’re here for a reason. 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙞𝙩.
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘯’𝘵 “𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧𝘪𝘴𝘩” 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘷𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧.
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘣𝘺 𝘎𝘰𝘥 𝘢𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯?
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘷𝘦 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘯𝘦𝘨𝘭𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘴𝘰 𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘮 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴… 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮?
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 “𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘰𝘯” 𝘰𝘳 “𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦” 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘬 𝘪𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘵?
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𝘚𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵’𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘰 𝘢𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵?
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘪𝘵’𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦?
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𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘫𝘰𝘣 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘶𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘺 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘺?
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𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶…
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𝗜𝗦 𝗬𝗢𝗨?
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##purpose ##mindsetmotivation ##dreambig ##purposefulliving ##unstuckyourself
🛑 Tap “more” for GOLD 👉
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𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘃𝗮𝗹𝘂𝗲.
That’s fairly obvious…
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𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘶𝘳𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘢 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦.
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They 𝗜𝗡𝗧𝗘𝗥𝗡𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗭𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗥𝗘𝗝𝗘𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 of others because it feels like a personal rejection… even though it’s not.
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AT ALL.
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They’re rejecting what you 𝗣𝗥𝗢𝗩𝗜𝗗𝗘.
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𝙉𝙤𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
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Do not equate your worth/value as a human being to your worth/value as a leader or entrepreneur.
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YOU are invaluable.
What you provide, is not.
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𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙨𝙚𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙖𝙨 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚.
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And the amount they are willing to pay you is determined by their perception.
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If they think what they are getting is worth more than what they are paying, you’ll sell more and be able to serve more people.
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𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻’𝘁 𝗽𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗱𝗲 or aren’t paying you what you think you’re worth, it’s not their fault.
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You just need to do a better job conveying the VALUE of what you provide.
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Because I’m guessing, if they TRULY understood the value of your products, writing, services, consulting, coaching, speaking, training, etc… 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙮’𝙙 𝙗𝙚 𝙗𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙙𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙤𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙤 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙡𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙤𝙬 𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙮 𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
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So get better at marketing and understanding buyers psychology.
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Get better at understanding your customers and clients.
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Get better at asking questions and solving problem.
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Just don’t EVER believe the lie that “you’re not worth much”.
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𝗬𝗢𝗨, 𝗺𝘆 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗵 𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗹.
FULL STOP.
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What you provide… not so much.
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That’s determined by your customers and clients.
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So if you want to make more, 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙢𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙤𝙧 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚.
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𝘜𝘴𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘭? Lemme know 👊
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#entrepreneur #entrepreneurship #businesscoaching #mindset #success
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𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘃𝗮𝗹𝘂𝗲.
That’s fairly obvious…
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𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘶𝘳𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘢 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦.
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They 𝗜𝗡𝗧𝗘𝗥𝗡𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗭𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗥𝗘𝗝𝗘𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 of others because it feels like a personal rejection… even though it’s not.
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AT ALL.
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They’re rejecting what you 𝗣𝗥𝗢𝗩𝗜𝗗𝗘.
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𝙉𝙤𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
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Do not equate your worth/value as a human being to your worth/value as a leader or entrepreneur.
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YOU are invaluable.
What you provide, is not.
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𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙨𝙚𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙖𝙨 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚.
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And the amount they are willing to pay you is determined by their perception.
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If they think what they are getting is worth more than what they are paying, you’ll sell more and be able to serve more people.
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𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻’𝘁 𝗽𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗱𝗲 or aren’t paying you what you think you’re worth, it’s not their fault.
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You just need to do a better job conveying the VALUE of what you provide.
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Because I’m guessing, if they TRULY understood the value of your products, writing, services, consulting, coaching, speaking, training, etc… 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙮’𝙙 𝙗𝙚 𝙗𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙙𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙤𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙤 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙡𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙤𝙬 𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙮 𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
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So get better at marketing and understanding buyers psychology.
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Get better at understanding your customers and clients.
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Get better at asking questions and solving problem.
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Just don’t EVER believe the lie that “you’re not worth much”.
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𝗬𝗢𝗨, 𝗺𝘆 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗵 𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗹.
FULL STOP.
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What you provide… not so much.
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That’s determined by your customers and clients.
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So if you want to make more, 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙢𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙤𝙧 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚.
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𝘜𝘴𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘭? Lemme know 👊
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#entrepreneur #entrepreneurship #businesscoaching #mindset #success
No one can CAUSE YOU to lose control of your emotions.
Unless you’ve forfeited your power.
YOU are the only one who can lose control of YOUR EMOTIONS.
If you want to develop the skill of emotional mastery, you’ll likely find the best teachers can be found in your spouse and children.
If you don’t have these, look at your significant other, parents, boss, or teammates.
They are constantly reflecting back to you the very areas of your heart and mind that need the most attention.
Emotional mastery is skill that is challenging to develop and the lessons can be painful.
This is why most avoid it.
But if you want to work on it and create more joy, peace, and contentment in your life, start today.
Begin by noticing what triggers, offends, and excessively annoys you.
These are incredible gifts, in disguise.
Be kind to yourself in the process.
Own your emotional state.
Respond instead of reacting.
Ask forgiveness and forgive yourself when you miss it.
Because you will miss it.
But over time, you’ll miss it less and less.
This is a skill I am constantly working on mastering and hope you are as well.
With you and for you. 👊 #emotionaldamage #personalgrowthanddevelopment #emotionalintelligence #successprinciples #controllingemotions
Unless you’ve forfeited your power.
YOU are the only one who can lose control of YOUR EMOTIONS.
If you want to develop the skill of emotional mastery, you’ll likely find the best teachers can be found in your spouse and children.
If you don’t have these, look at your significant other, parents, boss, or teammates.
They are constantly reflecting back to you the very areas of your heart and mind that need the most attention.
Emotional mastery is skill that is challenging to develop and the lessons can be painful.
This is why most avoid it.
But if you want to work on it and create more joy, peace, and contentment in your life, start today.
Begin by noticing what triggers, offends, and excessively annoys you.
These are incredible gifts, in disguise.
Be kind to yourself in the process.
Own your emotional state.
Respond instead of reacting.
Ask forgiveness and forgive yourself when you miss it.
Because you will miss it.
But over time, you’ll miss it less and less.
This is a skill I am constantly working on mastering and hope you are as well.
With you and for you. 👊 #emotionaldamage #personalgrowthanddevelopment #emotionalintelligence #successprinciples #controllingemotions