chantellethecoach
Love + Life Coach for Singles
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I know the thought of staying in a hostel as a single girl puts a lot of you off using them but honestly, since this first experience, I’ve stayed in more (female only dorms are the only form I’ve tried ti date) and it’s not been bad at all, thankfully! #sologirltravelling #chantellethecoach #sololifestyle #singlegirladventures #thesinglegirlsguidetolife #travelonabudgethacks #stayinginahostel #onthisday
🏔️ Life is like climbing a mountain. Sometimes, you set your sights on one peak, work tirelessly to reach the top, and when you finally get there, you realise there are countless other mountains waiting to be conquered - which is exactly how I felt after I got married.
And changing your mind over a marrisge js hard to admit… but changing your mind isn't a sign of failure; it's a sign of growth and exploration, and actually doing something about takes courage.
Just because you reslised there were other mountains doesn’t mean you should be afraid to pivot, explore, and discover new passions along. Each mountain you climb adds to the richness of your life's adventures. So go get ‘em girl! #changingyourmind #quarterlifecrisischeck #chantellethecoach #findingyourself❤️ #feelinglostinlife #itsokaytochange #onthisday
And changing your mind over a marrisge js hard to admit… but changing your mind isn't a sign of failure; it's a sign of growth and exploration, and actually doing something about takes courage.
Just because you reslised there were other mountains doesn’t mean you should be afraid to pivot, explore, and discover new passions along. Each mountain you climb adds to the richness of your life's adventures. So go get ‘em girl! #changingyourmind #quarterlifecrisischeck #chantellethecoach #findingyourself❤️ #feelinglostinlife #itsokaytochange #onthisday
Replying to @Little Home Corner Comparing your life to others' can often make you feel like you're falling behind, especially when it comes to relationships.
But as someone that did the whole buy a house, get married and adopt two pers (and since got divorced and had to start all over) let me tell you, being single is *NOT* a setback – it's a beautiful chapter of self-discovery and personal growth that you gotta use to your advantage.
Instead of focusing on timelines set by society or your friends, embrace the journey you're on. Use this time to develop a deeper relationship with yourself, explore your passions, and build a strong foundation for your future. It’s the one single time you’re going to get to spend enitrely on your own, so use that to define who you are without anyone else in the picture.
Remember, everyone's path is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all timeline for success. Your worth isn't defined by your relationship status. So, cherish this single season, and when the right time comes, you'll be even more prepared for the love that's meant for you. #singlelifebelike😊 #thesingleonesinthegroup #chantellethecoach #thesinglegirlsguidetolife #lovebeingsingleandindependent #hatebeingsinglerightnow
But as someone that did the whole buy a house, get married and adopt two pers (and since got divorced and had to start all over) let me tell you, being single is *NOT* a setback – it's a beautiful chapter of self-discovery and personal growth that you gotta use to your advantage.
Instead of focusing on timelines set by society or your friends, embrace the journey you're on. Use this time to develop a deeper relationship with yourself, explore your passions, and build a strong foundation for your future. It’s the one single time you’re going to get to spend enitrely on your own, so use that to define who you are without anyone else in the picture.
Remember, everyone's path is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all timeline for success. Your worth isn't defined by your relationship status. So, cherish this single season, and when the right time comes, you'll be even more prepared for the love that's meant for you. #singlelifebelike😊 #thesingleonesinthegroup #chantellethecoach #thesinglegirlsguidetolife #lovebeingsingleandindependent #hatebeingsinglerightnow
As I turn 30, I can literally feel this shift inside of me that says goodbye to my 20s and hello to my 30s. It’s not a crisis, just an observed shift as I change chapter of the decade I belong in. My 20s were wild with graduation, building a career, buying 2 houses, both marriage and divorce, and starting over - just to name a few things. But even beyond the experiences, there’s this internal, personal shift taking place and I just wondered if I wasn’t the only one? #turning30thisyear #chantellethecoach #quarterlifecrisischeck #sayinggoodbyetomy20s #omgim30 #lifeinyour30s
I will always stand by this *every* *single* *time*.
You’ve got to do what’s right for you 🙏
I’ve been through it - I know how tough it is, how messy it can feel. But you deserve to live a life that feels right for you, not one that you feel stuck in.
Divorce isn’t failure.
A break-up isn’t a failure.
So throw away that belief & stick around here for tips on how to embrace and ENJOY your single life 💃🏻
#datingafterdivorce #breakupadvice #quarterlifecrisis #heartbreakclub #rebuildyourself #lifeafterdivorce #singleagain #newlysingle #coachingforwomen #relationshipadviceforwomen #youdeservehappiness
You’ve got to do what’s right for you 🙏
I’ve been through it - I know how tough it is, how messy it can feel. But you deserve to live a life that feels right for you, not one that you feel stuck in.
Divorce isn’t failure.
A break-up isn’t a failure.
So throw away that belief & stick around here for tips on how to embrace and ENJOY your single life 💃🏻
#datingafterdivorce #breakupadvice #quarterlifecrisis #heartbreakclub #rebuildyourself #lifeafterdivorce #singleagain #newlysingle #coachingforwomen #relationshipadviceforwomen #youdeservehappiness
Divorce was just the start of my journey…
In the latest episode of The Single Girls Guide to Life, I share the biggest lessons I’ve learned in the last 3 years 🙏
It hasn’t been an easy time, but I have learned SO much about myself, what my priorities are and what I want from life - and all of that is without a doubt worth it.
So if you’re going through a tough time & want to compare notes, head over to episode 68 of the Podcast & let me know your thoughts 💭
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#lifeafterdivorce #breakupthoughts #breakupadvice #relationshipcoach #lifecoachforwomen #podcastforwomen #datingpodcast #relationshipbreakup #heartbreakclub #divorcedandhappy
In the latest episode of The Single Girls Guide to Life, I share the biggest lessons I’ve learned in the last 3 years 🙏
It hasn’t been an easy time, but I have learned SO much about myself, what my priorities are and what I want from life - and all of that is without a doubt worth it.
So if you’re going through a tough time & want to compare notes, head over to episode 68 of the Podcast & let me know your thoughts 💭
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#lifeafterdivorce #breakupthoughts #breakupadvice #relationshipcoach #lifecoachforwomen #podcastforwomen #datingpodcast #relationshipbreakup #heartbreakclub #divorcedandhappy
The value of friendships 🤞
If you’re dating - particularly if you’ve been single for a long time or perhaps been unhappy for a long time - it’s easy to get caught up in the romance and find yourself in a bubble .. 🫧
BUT it’s not healthy for one person to be your everything, and neither should you be theirs… that’s SO much pressure on you both 😣
So don’t forget about your friends, your family, your TRIBE 🙌
Make time for them, be present when you DO spend time with them, and take an interest in what’s going on in their life 🙏
And if you’ve not reached out to a friend for a little while… this is your reminder 💌
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#datingadviceforwomen #singlelifeadvice #lifecoachforwomen #datingtips #howtobesingle #newrelationship #singleanddating #singlelifebelike #singlelifeproblems #singlefriends #friendshipbreakup #checkonyourfriends #realfriendship
If you’re dating - particularly if you’ve been single for a long time or perhaps been unhappy for a long time - it’s easy to get caught up in the romance and find yourself in a bubble .. 🫧
BUT it’s not healthy for one person to be your everything, and neither should you be theirs… that’s SO much pressure on you both 😣
So don’t forget about your friends, your family, your TRIBE 🙌
Make time for them, be present when you DO spend time with them, and take an interest in what’s going on in their life 🙏
And if you’ve not reached out to a friend for a little while… this is your reminder 💌
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#datingadviceforwomen #singlelifeadvice #lifecoachforwomen #datingtips #howtobesingle #newrelationship #singleanddating #singlelifebelike #singlelifeproblems #singlefriends #friendshipbreakup #checkonyourfriends #realfriendship
My story in 22 seconds 📹
Life after a a breakup - or in this case, a divorce - isn’t all bad 👀
It’s painful and difficult at times, especially in the beginning, but my divorce has led me on a wild rollercoaster journey of self development & self love that I wouldn’t change for a second.
I know there is so much societal pressure there is to jump back into dating and find a new relationship, but I’m here to help you CELEBRATE your single life and use it as time for YOU, to learn, to heal, to grow 🙏
So follow along & start living YOUR best single life 🌟
#lifeafterdivorce #chantellethecoach #breakupadvice2023 #lifecoachingforwomen #breakupsarehard #mysinglelife #singlelifebelike #newlysinglemate #howtobesingle #personaldevelopmentcoach #personaldevelopmentjourney #timetoheal #singleandhappytobesingle #singlelifeproblems #strongindependentwomen
Life after a a breakup - or in this case, a divorce - isn’t all bad 👀
It’s painful and difficult at times, especially in the beginning, but my divorce has led me on a wild rollercoaster journey of self development & self love that I wouldn’t change for a second.
I know there is so much societal pressure there is to jump back into dating and find a new relationship, but I’m here to help you CELEBRATE your single life and use it as time for YOU, to learn, to heal, to grow 🙏
So follow along & start living YOUR best single life 🌟
#lifeafterdivorce #chantellethecoach #breakupadvice2023 #lifecoachingforwomen #breakupsarehard #mysinglelife #singlelifebelike #newlysinglemate #howtobesingle #personaldevelopmentcoach #personaldevelopmentjourney #timetoheal #singleandhappytobesingle #singlelifeproblems #strongindependentwomen
Do you actually know how to be single? Being single isn’t about being alone. It’s being confident in yourself. It’s being accepting of the circumstances, and making the most of your situation, without spending every day wishing you were in a different situation. It’s about finding connection to other people outside of a romantic relationship, and thriving off of all the different types of love. Being single isn’t about being on your own, in fact, some if the happiest single people spend more time with others than those that are in couples. #howtobesingleandhappy #singlelifehappiness #singlelifeconfidence #chantellethecoach #ihatebeingsingle😭 #hatebeingsingleandalone #singleandlonelyaf
Business takes up a *lot* of my time otherwise - I’m networking the hell out of my time right now, but taking the foot off the pedal after leaving my full-time teaching job was a gamechanger. Leaving at 3.15pm, being able to have time to go to the gym straight after, and still having an evening that wasn’t filled with lesson plans, reports or anything work-related (that was for someone else at least, not for my own passions and interests) is a dream #exteachersoftiktok #leavingteaching2023 #chantellethecoach #loveworkingformyself #freelancerlife💖 #flexibleworkingtime
Here’s what I think we can learn about the quarter life crisis from the Sophie Turner & Joe Jonas divorce reports and references to “feeling trapped”. #quarterlifecrisisedition #chantellethecoach #sophieturnerjoejonas #gettingdivorced2020 #lifeafterdivorcewithchildren Disclaimer: I’ve no qualifications in the quarter-life crisis but did a whole tonne of reading and studying around it after I got divorced aged 26 and was looking to understand what the heck went on 😅
Going on a solo road trip is still one of my favourite past times as a single. If you’ve never done a solo trip before (and i don’t mean a week-long holiday to a resort) you don’t know what you’re missing out on. Weekends away, city breaks or glamping getaways, you get the freedome of being on your own, to soak in a new place and do exactly what you want on your own terms. And Manchester as my first solo road trip was a blast back in Summer 2021 😍 where would you like to go on your solo adventures?! #soloroadtripping #chantellethecoach #singlegirladventures #singlegirllifehacks #enjoysinglelife❤️😘 #loveyourowncompany😊 #howtobesingleandhappy #howtosurvivebeingsingle #singlelife #sologirladventure
I’d love you to share you experiences of being single. I promote the positive, beneficial side of single life because it’s a state we often have little control over. You can do a lot of things to try and change it but if you’re sticking by your values and standards, that’s easier said than done. So when our situation is out of control, we focus on what we can control such as our attitude and perspective BUT I’m also well aware that being single isn’t easy. You don’t have the deafult person to talk to, to go on activities with, to arrive home to. Financially it’s more challenging being single, especially if you live on your own, and don’t get me started on maintaining a social life and keeping up with friends - in particular the ones popping kids out. So if any of those things resonate with you as the biggest challenges, or there’s other things you’d like to share, let me know them. I want you to feel seen and heard in that single life struggle, and to know that there are others our there feeling the same too, which can make all the difference when you’re the only single one left in the friendship group! #chantellethecoach #theonlysingleoneinthegroup #willibesingleforever #singlelifesucksattimes #ihatebeingsingle