beyondthehighroadcoach
Beyond The High Road Coaching
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Alienation recovery expert, helping target parents 2 heal & reinvent their ♥️/🧠
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It’s Saturday night. Im an extrovert by nature. I couod be out. Thats what i used to do in effort to numb the pain & suffering.
I could be ruminating about how i havent hugged my sweet daughter in 20 months.
But instead, i spent my afternoon helping other alienated parents like me. And you know what?
My heart is filled with so much JOY.
Do i miss my (16yr old) babe? 1000%. Ill never NOT miss having her within earshot… kissing her forehead every night… making dinner for her… tickling her forearm amd palm when we’re chillin on the couch (its her thing😌)..
But ive learned that i can rebuild my life… FULLY REINVENT MYSELF…
…AND HOLD SPACE FOR HER.. simultaneously. Im not leaving her behind. Im not shutting her out.
She comes along with — in my heart.
…until shes ready to join me otherwise. 😌♥️💞
Wanna learn how? For starters, come listen to the Beyond the High Road Podcast. Ive got you, my friend.
#parentalalienation #erasingandreplacing #evilstepmom #healingfromalienation #parentalalienationrecoverycoach #custodybattle #custodyissues #fyp #alienatedmom #alienateddad #maliciousparentsyndrome #alienatedparent #brainwashingchildren #parentalalienationischildabuse #
I could be ruminating about how i havent hugged my sweet daughter in 20 months.
But instead, i spent my afternoon helping other alienated parents like me. And you know what?
My heart is filled with so much JOY.
Do i miss my (16yr old) babe? 1000%. Ill never NOT miss having her within earshot… kissing her forehead every night… making dinner for her… tickling her forearm amd palm when we’re chillin on the couch (its her thing😌)..
But ive learned that i can rebuild my life… FULLY REINVENT MYSELF…
…AND HOLD SPACE FOR HER.. simultaneously. Im not leaving her behind. Im not shutting her out.
She comes along with — in my heart.
…until shes ready to join me otherwise. 😌♥️💞
Wanna learn how? For starters, come listen to the Beyond the High Road Podcast. Ive got you, my friend.
#parentalalienation #erasingandreplacing #evilstepmom #healingfromalienation #parentalalienationrecoverycoach #custodybattle #custodyissues #fyp #alienatedmom #alienateddad #maliciousparentsyndrome #alienatedparent #brainwashingchildren #parentalalienationischildabuse #
This ATE.ME.UP. So much so, that I lost track of my ultimate goal.. which was to be mentally/emotionally present for my daughter.
I mean, i think it’s natural to be on high alert when another adult inserts themself into your child’s life in an aggressive manner. I dont onow that i would chamge my stance on this.
HOWEVER… what i did (what many of us do), is i became obsessed with her obsession. I entertained & even INDULGED IN the negative thought loops (trauma loops).
If you can relate, this causes you to UNNECESSARILY SUFFER. I can help you to let go of this habit, and begin thinking in a way that serves you & your purposes. #parentalalienation #erasingandreplacing #evilstepmom #healingfromalienation #toxicstepmom #toxicstepparent #alienatingbehaviour #healingfromalienation #parentalalienationrecoverycoach
I mean, i think it’s natural to be on high alert when another adult inserts themself into your child’s life in an aggressive manner. I dont onow that i would chamge my stance on this.
HOWEVER… what i did (what many of us do), is i became obsessed with her obsession. I entertained & even INDULGED IN the negative thought loops (trauma loops).
If you can relate, this causes you to UNNECESSARILY SUFFER. I can help you to let go of this habit, and begin thinking in a way that serves you & your purposes. #parentalalienation #erasingandreplacing #evilstepmom #healingfromalienation #toxicstepmom #toxicstepparent #alienatingbehaviour #healingfromalienation #parentalalienationrecoverycoach
Ya. Going thru alienation is hard as shit. There’s no denying this. AND.. you can do it. You can do hard things. In fact, I FIRMLY believe that you can CRUSH it.
But only if you carefully choose your vantage point. The language you use.. the stories you entertain on repeat in your mind… make sure youre hand picking the ones that serve you.
Yes, alienation hurts. But what also hurts is when you tell yourself that you CAN’T handle it. That it’s too much.. Because what are you saying about yourself there??
Don’t underestimate how powerful you truly are. #parentalalienation #healingfromalienation #custodyissues #maliciousparentsyndrome #pathogenicparenting #alienatedparent #custodybattle #alienatedmom #alienateddad
But only if you carefully choose your vantage point. The language you use.. the stories you entertain on repeat in your mind… make sure youre hand picking the ones that serve you.
Yes, alienation hurts. But what also hurts is when you tell yourself that you CAN’T handle it. That it’s too much.. Because what are you saying about yourself there??
Don’t underestimate how powerful you truly are. #parentalalienation #healingfromalienation #custodyissues #maliciousparentsyndrome #pathogenicparenting #alienatedparent #custodybattle #alienatedmom #alienateddad
I wasted so much time on the alienator. On trying to predict what kind of nastiness they would spew when we met for exchanges.. how one “wrong” choice in wording would insitgate WWIII. So not only was i suffering due to the alienation dynamic, i was suffering on my own time, because they were literally always on my mind. No wonder i felt like i was living in my own personal hell. I spent all my time trying to anticipate their thoughts. #parentalalienation #healingfromalienation #alienatedparent #brainwashingchildren #custodybattle #custodyissues #pathogenicparenting
When youre believing the statistics, what history is showing, and the negative stories in your head, itll be impossible to create new, desirable results. In order to create a new reality, you have to take action from your future. You have to call bullshit on your current discouraging narrative, and respond to it by providing new, believable, and BETTER information. #parentalalienation #beyondthehighroadpodcast #healingfromalienation #custodybattle #custodyissues #pathogenicparenting #maliciousparentsyndrome
